The Christmas Spirit

Christmas is often called the “season of lights”…Christmas lights, candle lights, and for some…too many Coors and Bud Lights.  Personally, I enjoy the lights! When our children were young, I loved putting lights on our home.  I wanted Christmas for them to be memorable and magical.  I would work for two weeks just getting all the lights put on the house, the trees, and on all the bushes.  But for me, the focal point was the stable with Mary, Joseph, and the baby Jesus, surrounded by the animals.  Kristin and Nathan would dress up and play the shepherds who had come to worship Him on that first night when God sent His Son into our world.

Last night, I finally put up the outside lights on our home.  There are less lights than before, but the focal point of the yard is a beautiful nativity that my brother-in-law Ross built.  My neighbor drove up and gave me compliments on my lights, and then said, “Are we the only ones who put Jesus out in our yard?”  I really hadn’t thought about it much, but when I drove through the neighborhood later, he was right.  There are many homes with lights, Santas, and other decorations, but very few outward symbols reflecting Jesus.

I wonder why so many Christian homes have no witness about Jesus at Christmas?  Is it because we’re too busy?  Is it because we think it trivializes the message?  Would it even make a difference if every Christian decorated with a desire to witness for Christ?  I’m just wondering… 

I also wonder about the homes that are not decorated…what is the spirit that resides in those homes?  I wonder if the people do not share the spirit of the season?  Does the darkness indicate darkness within? Do these people not feel a connection to Christmas?  Maybe they are traveling to celebrate elsewhere, or they don’t share our beliefs.  Perhaps they are still searching for Christ. They may be facing difficult challenges, or loved ones who are ill, or facing Christmas without their loved one?  Maybe they struggle with their own faith at this time of the year. If so, I pray that it is only a temporary condition, and that they will realize that He is always with us.

At times, however, I cannot help but reflect that the contrast between the dark homes and the lighted ones is like that of Christians today.  The message of Christmas is summed up in the words from John 1, “In Him was life, and that life was the light of all people.” That is wonderful news! Jesus is the light for all of us.  Some have embraced the meaning of the season, and these people shine with the enthusiasm of their faith, reaching out to others, generously sharing with others, changing others. Some are less openly enthusiastic, somewhat reluctant, yet believe as firmly in our Savior, but do not feel as comfortable sharing their beliefs. Still others find Christmas a time of sadness and great loneliness.

What does this season mean to you?  I would love to hear about your perceptions…

 

 

10 comments (Add your own)

1. MichaelL wrote:
I have almost zero lights on my home this year. I have two quasi-valid reasons: new home, old lights- not sure how it will all fit together. Secondly, old home-one story, new home-two story. I have no extension ladder and haven't bothered to borrow one.

In regards to the spirit of the season, I have caught the Christmas spirit this year. My distractions at work are lighter and therefore I have more time to reflect on the meaning of it all. I wonder, though, in the not too distant past, when I was so busy, I could have (and might have) said, "Christmas is just coming at a bad time this year." It became a nuisance and a bother. I venture to guess I was not alone and many this year are as I was a few years ago.

If I do put lights on my home, I would like to include a Nativity scene. Anyone know where to buy one? I have looked in years past, albeit not aggressively. But there is a gaping hole in the decorations being sold during the "Holiday" sales. Garden Ridge has a huge outdoor decorations section. I really liked the Santa on a Harley inflatable. Missing between the 6 foot carousal inflatable snowglobe and the lit deer in every pose known to the animal kingdom, are the Holy Family. Where, O Where have they gone? It seems like there is no room left at the Inn (or in the stores) for a simple man and his pregnant wife.

Seriously, I don't work with wood so making one is out. Anyone know where to find a good Nativity display?

December 14, 2007 @ 2:38 PM

2. wrote:
It is amazing how some people can use so much energy to have their house stand out when a simple nativity scene or other Chritian symbol can seem to make a very loud statement. A sign of the times I guess.

December 14, 2007 @ 2:42 PM

3. Jon Peterson wrote:
We too have a nativity, and when we moved into this area of North Houston, we too had a hard time finding a Natvitiy. The only home in your subdivision with one was my first stop. "Where'd you get the Nativity scene in your yard?" A: "In Mexico, sorry I can't be more help." One of our esteemed member families at St. Timothy has one in their yard - don't laugh, came from South America. Will God impeach America? The only way we found to get a Nativity is to make it yourself, or, as Pastor Steve did, get a "skills person" to make one for you. The fellow that made mine is still very active at St. Timothy. Tomorrow's Sunday, so I will check with him to see if he would be interested in helping you too. In > Grip, Jon

December 15, 2007 @ 7:25 PM

4. todd brooks wrote:
There is a house in our subdivision that does not have a fancy Nativity, an inflatable merry-go-round. They have opted instead to simply hang three lit crosses on their house.

It is a subtle acknowledgement to the real reason for the holidays. Every time I drive by their house, a sense of awe washes over me and reminds me of the extraordinary and undeserved grace that has been bestowed upon us.

December 16, 2007 @ 7:47 PM

5. Laurie J wrote:
We have the plastic lit nativity from Walmart. I LOVE that nativity. I always wanted it and James and I searched for a few years to gather all of the pieces. James still wants to build the stable to go behind it. Also, the one in the atrium area at the church came from Sams I think. It's beautiful and apparently safe to put outside.

December 17, 2007 @ 10:17 AM

6. wrote:
Why does "No Lights" mean "No Spirit"?

I am working my regular job, working at the homeless shelter, doing a food drive at work, doing a toy drive for the less fortunate and trying to get a little sleep!

Maybe the youth of St. Timothy could offer to do the lights for those who do not have the time to put lights on their house so that they can say that they "Have the Spirit".

December 17, 2007 @ 2:30 PM

7. wrote:
I did not read that No Lights means No Spirit. Your glass must be half empty! I commend you for all your are doing, but I read Pastor asking why is it, what could it be - not 'here it is...you got no lights, you got no spirit.'

I do not have lights myself, in fact, we have absolutely no christmas decoration up at our house at all, except for a small nativity sitting in our entryway. For me it had to do with time, and simply not wanting to deal with the putting things away after Christmas. But I've made a promise to the family - next year we go ALL OUT! Will my faith in Christ's birth be any greater next year when we have a zillion lights up and every ornament hung on the tree? NO! But just perhaps, next year my Christmas display will be a conversation starter to my neighbors...imagine it "What happen to you since last year that got you so in the Christmas Spirit?" This is my opportunity to share with them the many ways Christ will bless me in 2008, and share my faith and the reason for Christmas.

December 28, 2007 @ 12:37 PM

8. C Beale wrote:
You can purchase outdoor nativity sets online. Just "google" it and you can find all sorts of things.

I usually just put out my nativity set and a few lights. The kids used to complain that we didn't go all out..just kinda average...

But now, when they drive up from college and turn in the drive, I think that old nativity set that keeps showing up year after year is a comfort to them. It's also a comfort to us!

January 6, 2008 @ 9:16 AM

9. Rob Ellington wrote:
I hoped to win one of the awards for best lights this year in my neighborhood but didn't. I love Christmas and that includes but is not limited to the fluff. Next year I will probably try to match the Grizzwalts from Christmas Vacation (the movie.) I hope the breakers can handle it!

January 9, 2008 @ 9:28 PM

10. dave wrote:
i like the lit cross idea. very simple to make actually. just cut a cross out of wood and line the outside with lights. a simple yet effective method to show the reason for the season

January 15, 2008 @ 2:03 PM

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